When a Man Only Wants You for Sex: How to Get Out of the Friends with Benefits Zone; How to Get a Man to Commit; How to Turn a Friend with Benefits into a Boyfriend

Being friends who have sex without commitment is usually a situation that benefits a man who doesn’t want a relationship. However, when you’re the one who is in love and you want a friend with benefits to fall in love with you, the situation no longer seems so favorable. Instead, you might feel stuck and unable to look for love elsewhere because you’re in love with the friend you’re having sex with. At the same time, you may feel unable to let go of this unrequited love. The problem with this situation is that you become so involved in the sexual relationship, without him committing, that you sometimes end up feeling trapped in the role of just a friend.
You enjoy his company and dream that it could turn into a real relationship. You’re afraid to tell this man that you want something serious because you fear he might pull away. You may feel a deep emotional connection, while a man may only experience physical attraction and remain emotionally detached. You give him a lot of attention, have sex whenever he wants, accept it when he doesn’t reply or doesn’t want to see you, and you’re afraid of losing him—so you settle for a relationship based only on sex. For him, it becomes natural to be with you just for sex, because he doesn’t have to make an effort to win you over and he has no intention of having a serious relationship.
You’ve found yourself in a situation where you spend time with a man, you have sex, he seems interested, but in the end he doesn’t want a serious relationship. You feel confused and hurt, yet at the same time still attracted to him. You feel desired, but not chosen by him. He reaches out when he wants sex. This book is for you if you’re stuck in a relationship that’s only about sex, if he doesn’t talk about the future but won’t let you go, if you’re hoping he’ll change his mind and see you as his woman, if you want a real relationship and are tired of suffering in silence. This book is for you if you’re trying to turn a friends with benefits situation into a loving relationship. This book guides you in moving from the role of friend with benefits to that of a girlfriend, helping you make a friend you’re sleeping with fall in love and build the romantic life you want.